Camp Boot Camp fans are still withdrawing from the fight between Vado and Tahiry Jose. Things got violent between the two in the reality series after an electric shock drill. Many believe that both should be blamed and one person who shares those feelings is Tami Roman. Roman says women should keep their hands on relationships.
Violent incident between Tahiry Jose and Vado at ‘Camp Boot Camp’
Tensions between Vado and Jose increased as a result of an electric shock drill. All couples were given a list of triggers that bother them about their partner. If the other party did anything on the list, they would be allowed to use electric shock on them.
The Ifts were not aware of what was causing their particular partners. One of the things Vado finds most annoying about Jose is that he says she does not listen and constantly screams. Initially, Vado did not use the shock, but as Jose continued to behave, he began to shake her constantly.
Jose got upset and angry more and more. At one point, she threw two apples at Vado’s head.
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During the day summing up with the group, an angry Vado visibility decreases as Jose expresses how he feels about the workout. When she starts to mention that she feels she takes most of the blame for her behavior in her relationship with Vado, he jumps up and extinguishes Jose, while yelling at him for throwing apples at him just moments away first.
Vado is accompanied from the room by the relationship counselor. He was evicted from the house the next day, though he is allowed to continue with the program.
Tami Roman says that a woman should not hit men; says domestic violence is not exclusive to women
The reaction against Vado and Jose is divided. Many fans are irritated that Vado was asked to leave the house while Jose was allowed to stay as they think she is just as responsible for the fight.
Social media users have demanded that the discussion about domestic violence be expanded to include cases of women hitting men. Many believe that some women start aggressive behavior by hitting men and crying victim if a man takes revenge.
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One person who slightly agrees is Roman. When talking about the incident on him Chronicles of covers podcast, Roman says women should also be held accountable for acts of violence against men.
“If you are a woman who puts your hands on a man, you can not rely on the fact that he has grown up not to hit your back. And if he hits you, God save us, I feel like a fight,” she says.
Roman notes that she does not condemn any kind of domestic violence, nor does she justify Vado’s revenge. However, it makes it clear that women need to hold their hands.
“If you start a few things, you will get what you get and that is unfortunate,” she says.
Vado has since apologized for his actions, saying he lost his temper and his actions were out of character. Jose also says that before the incident, Vado never hit him physically. She has made no remarks regarding the proper reaction of her apples thrown at Vado.